After a WHOLE week (without daddy cause remember he works out of town now) the kids are playing together, eating together (did this before but their was always some sort of discrepancy of some sort.), going to bed at the same time, SHARING ....EVERYTHING...and BEING just TOTALLY sweet all the time.
HELLO! This worked. I'm not saying it will work for everyone but so far so good! YIPPIE! and double yippie cause I only have one room to clean toys in! (and I got rid of a TON!) I still have to go through a BUNCH of books though ugh.